🪞THE OBSESSION IS MUTUAL
Or, Why Westminster Social Workers Cannot Stop Thinking About Me
A Cautionary Tale in Professional Overidentification and Procedural Infatuation
Filed to: SWANK Evidentiary Catalogue
Filed: 9 August 2025
Reference Code: SWANK/OBSESSION/WCC
Filename: 2025-08-09_SWANK_Statement_WestminsterSocialWorkersObsessed.pdf
Summary: A mother raises children. The state watches her do it. Then tries to become her.
I. What Happened
Somewhere between failing to meet statutory thresholds and inventing risks out of resentment, Westminster Children’s Services appears to have entered a full-blown psychological entanglement — not with the facts, not with the law, but with me.
I home-educate four bright children.
They call it non-engagement.
I maintain evidence.
They suppress it.
I document retaliation.
They escalate it.
I exist.
They panic.
What began as professional oversight has mutated into fixation — an institutional crush of the most unprofessional kind.
II. What This Suggests
This isn’t about child safety.
It’s about institutional ego.
This isn’t about risk.
It’s about rejection trauma.
This isn’t about safeguarding.
It’s about the humiliating inability to control a woman smarter than you.
Westminster is not protecting children.
It is performing authority. And it’s doing so very, very badly.
III. Why SWANK Logged It
Because harassment wrapped in concern is still harassment.
Because obsession dressed in procedural language is still obsession.
Because the social workers do not see my children.
They see their failure, reflected in the mother who outpaced them.
IV. Violations (Obsessively Repeated)
Children Act 1989 – Weaponised misapplication of s.47
Human Rights Act 1998 – Articles 8, 10, and 14 violated through conduct and targeting
Equality Act 2010 – Disability and parenthood-based discrimination
Data Protection Act 2018 – Unlawful handling of private and sensitive information
Professional Ethics – Decimated
V. SWANK’s Position
There is nothing more terrifying to an insecure bureaucracy than an articulate mother who refuses to collapse.
There is nothing more threatening to a fragile institution than a woman who doesn’t beg, doesn’t break, and doesn’t buy the narrative.
They are obsessed because I am free.
They retaliate because they are losing.
They monitor because they’ve lost control.
They escalate because I didn’t fold.
I am not confused.
I am not afraid.
I am documented.
And if they keep watching, I’ll keep writing.
Filed by:
Polly Chromatic
Mother of Four | Founder, SWANK London Ltd
Owner of the Mirror | Holder of the Receipts
📧 director@swanklondon.com
🌐 www.swanklondon.com
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