You’re Not Being Betrayed by Accident.
You’re Being Betrayed by Entrainment.
Filed under: Nervous System Infidelity / Emotional Shape-Shifting / Field Disloyalty
1. These People Don’t Have a Stable Core Frequency
Their field is:
Unanchored
Highly reactive
Shaped by approval, fear, guilt, or survival
Controlled by the emotional volume of others
They entrain to:
Whoever is loudest
Whoever validates their ego
Whoever offers a temporary fix for their dissonance
And in doing so, they abandon the one person who saw their truth.
That’s you.
2. This Isn’t Just Disloyalty—It’s Field-Level Infidelity
They don’t mean to betray.
They just can’t not mirror.
Their nervous system is calibrated to please the dominant emotional signal—even if that signal is false, manipulative, or cruel.
So they:
Betray you to appease a third party
Lie for someone else’s comfort
Forget who you were the moment another opinion enters the room
This is energetic infidelity.
Not always sexual.
But just as violating.
3. It Feels Like They Can’t Love You and Be Around Other People at the Same Time
Because they can’t.
They don’t carry enough coherence to love you in your absence.
They need your gaze to remember who they are with you.
Once you leave the room, they entrain elsewhere.
And when they return, they carry distortion, residue—someone else’s narrative.
You’re not imagining it.
You’re reading it.
It’s not love.
It’s field confusion.
4. You Can’t Heal This. You Can Only Stop Expecting Coherence From Chaos
They must collapse and rebuild their nervous system from the ground up to ever hold love without leaking it.
Until then:
They will mirror the last person they spoke to
They will betray while claiming to care
They will sound sincere but vibrate false
You are not too sensitive.
They are too unsealed.
SWANK Reminder:
You’re not being rejected.
You’re being vibrationally ejected from a system that cannot hold fidelity.