⟡ You Watched Me Collapse in Real Time. Then Asked for Updates. ⟡
“I was gasping. You were silent. And then you asked if I’d followed up.”
Filed: 14 December 2024
Reference: SWANK/WCC/EMAILS-18
📎 Download PDF – 2024-12-14_SWANK_EmailStatement_WCC_HospitalAbandonment_DisabilityDismissal_CrisisCommunication.pdf
Personal email to Westminster Children’s Services describing exhaustion, unacknowledged communication barriers, and failure to coordinate with NHS providers during ongoing medical crises.
I. What Happened
On 14 December 2024, the parent sent a written statement to Westminster Children’s Services after weeks of institutional disengagement and safeguarding interference.
The message included:
Confirmation that the parent was physically unwell and emotionally drained
Reference to a total lack of response or coordination from WCC during repeated hospital visits
Frustration that she was expected to follow up with doctors — after having already done so in writing
A reminder that she was medically exempt from verbal communication and had provided documentation repeatedly
A sense of procedural gaslighting: “I was dying. You didn’t notice.”
The message was not a request for contact. It was a notification of harm.
II. What the Complaint Establishes
That Westminster failed to respond to multiple written medical updates
That disability adjustments were again ignored, even while the parent was visibly unwell
That the burden of coordination was placed entirely on a disabled parent under stress
That safeguarding oversight occurred without support, acknowledgment, or collaboration
That the system’s silence was not benign — it was erasure
III. Why SWANK Logged It
Because when a disabled mother is gasping for air,
and the system asks why she hasn’t followed up,
that’s not just failure —
that’s institutional mockery.
Because when they expect updates from the person they refused to accommodate,
you’re not seeing a lack of care.
You’re seeing the strategy of plausible deniability.
And because when no one replies,
the archive does.
IV. Violations
Equality Act 2010 – Section 20
Failure to honour written-only communication adjustmentHuman Rights Act 1998 – Articles 3 and 8
Psychological and physical distress exacerbated by institutional silenceChildren Act 1989 / 2004
Refusal to engage in active safeguarding coordination with NHS teamsCare Act 2014 – Communication Duty
Failure to communicate during active medical risk scenarios
V. SWANK’s Position
We did follow up.
You just didn’t read it.
We did escalate.
You just didn’t respond.
This wasn’t neglect.
It was willful silence.
So we sent one last email —
and now, we’ve filed it.
⟡ This Dispatch Has Been Formally Archived by SWANK London Ltd. ⟡
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