📎 SWANK Dispatch: She Brought Her Mother to a Visit. Then Tried to Drag Me to a Conference.
🗓️ 27 February 2024
Filed Under: respiratory disability dismissed, child protection conference coercion, RBKC procedural absurdity, communication abuse, safeguarding theatre, social worker retaliation, unlawful jurisdiction, Chelsea & Westminster hospital cover-up, written communication sabotage
“You brought your mum.
Ignored my diagnosis.
Refused to read my letters.
And now want to ‘map’ my feelings?”
— Polly Chromatic, who already did the work you refused to do
This razor-edged correspondence from Polly Chromatic to Samira Issa of RBKC Children’s Services is a written refusal to accept ongoing gaslighting and coercion disguised as support. Sent days before a scheduled Initial Child Protection Conference, the letter reiterates that:
Polly and her children reside in Westminster, not RBKC
The referral was triggered by false and retaliatory statements from NHS staff
Noelle has repeatedly requested all communications in writing due to her diagnosed respiratory condition
Samira has ignored her medical documentation, letters, and basic requests for dignity
🛑 I. What This Letter Does
🔥 Refuses to accept "support" from unqualified abusers
📢 Publicly names Samira's behaviour as emotional abuse, citing NSPCC definitions
🧾 Reposts official RBKC guidance to show exactly how they are breaking their own rules
📎 Offers a reverse mapping form — so that Samira can reflect on her own fitness to serve families
🧠 Highlights Polly’s Master’s degree in Human Development and Bachelor’s in Psychology, underscoring the absurdity of the infantilising process she’s being subjected to
📝 II. Accommodations Demanded — And Denied
Despite having:
Severe eosinophilic asthma
A confirmed respiratory disability
Medical records from Royal Brompton Hospital (linked)
Polly has had to repeat herself across platforms just to access care. Her simple, reasonable accommodations include:
Written communication whenever possible
Paraphrasing to confirm understanding (“check-back”)
Patience while speaking
Respect for her family’s health, time, and space
These were not only ignored, they were used against her in the construction of “concerns.”
🧾 III. SWANK Commentary
They pretend to be mapping your feelings
while deleting your emails.
They say you need support
while punishing your breathing.
They hold a conference about your children
but won’t let them speak.
And they call that
care.