“Though the Witch knew the Deep Magic, there is a magic deeper still which she did not know. Her knowledge goes back only to the dawn of time. But if she could have looked a little further back… she would have known that when a willing victim who had committed no treachery was killed in a traitor’s stead, the Table would crack and Death itself would start working backward.” - Aslan, C.S. Lewis, The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe
Showing posts with label Ignored Emails. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ignored Emails. Show all posts

Communication Is a Choice—So Make It, or Step Aside.


🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 15 December 2024
“Replying to Emails: I Don’t Rush, and You Can Choose to Listen or Not”

Filed From: Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
Author: Polly Chromatic
Filed Under: Verbal Disability · Communication Protocol · Email Access Rights · Selective Reading · Legal Misunderstanding · SWANK Clarity Dispatch

✉️ My Communication Philosophy

“I don’t like being rushed and I don’t rush anyone.”
“If they ignore me, I just move on with my life due to incompatibility.”

Communication is not a demand—it is a choice. I respect yours. Kindly return the favour.

🧠 Refusal to Read Is a Form of Misconduct

“Human motto: ‘I misunderstand and I refuse to listen so I continue to misunderstand.’”

This is not miscommunication. It’s strategic ignorance.

🤝 How Communication Works in My Life

“My boyfriend reads my emails and then we talk—verbally, but only after reading.”
“This is how everyone respectful in my life handles it.”

Read first. Speak after. That’s the adjustment. That’s the law.

⚠️ A Request for Legal Respect

“It makes no sense for me to email my lawyers about my case only for it to be ignored or treated like it’s ‘for fun.’”
“I think it’s weird.”

So do I. And so would any tribunal.

📍 Communicated Clearly by:
Polly Chromatic
Director, SWANK London Ltd
📧 director@swanklondon.com
🌐 www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Messages Measured.


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When Silence is the Only Response to a Year of Messages.


🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 9 January 2025
“The No-Shows Mount — and So Does the Exhaustion”

Filed From: Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
Author: Polly Chromatic
Filed Under: Social Worker No-Shows · Institutional Neglect · Communication Breakdown · Chronic Fatigue · SWANK Accountability Files

📩 THE UNHEARD EMAIL:

“Social worker didn’t show up today.”
“I’m tired of being bothered while I’m sick.”
“I’m not responding to emails since no one responded to mine for a full year.”

Neglect is not always procedural. Sometimes it’s just absence in a slot where presence was promised.

💤 NO-SHOWS ARE MORE THAN INCONVENIENCES

Each missed visit compounds illness.
Each silence extends harm.
Each ignored message becomes part of the archive—and the evidence.

🚫 SILENCE IS A FORM OF RETALIATION

When you don’t show up for a year,
you don’t get to expect a reply.

📍 Logged by:
Polly Chromatic
Director, SWANK London Ltd
📧 director@swanklondon.com
🌐 www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Failures Filed.


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If You Won’t Show Up, Don’t Expect a Reply.


🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 9 January 2025
THE NO-SHOWS PILE UP—AND SO DOES MY EXHAUSTION.

Filed From: Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
Author: Polly Chromatic
Filed Under: Social Worker No-Shows · Institutional Neglect · Communication Breakdown · Chronic Exhaustion · SWANK No-Show Archive

📩 THE MESSAGE THEY REFUSE TO HEAR

“Social worker didn’t show up today.”
“I’m tired of being bothered while I’m sick.”
“I’m not responding to emails since no one responded to mine for a full year.”
“We won’t be home on my birthday.”

A pattern of disregard disguised as oversight.
A year of silence punctuated by missed obligations.

💤 NO-SHOWS ARE NOT JUST INCONVENIENCES

They are administrative abandonment.
They are procedural attrition.
They are a form of coercion by fatigue.

🚫 SILENCE MEANS NO CONSENT

If you cannot be bothered to reply for twelve months,
do not expect the privilege of access.
Absence has consequences—and I’m writing them all down.

Polly Chromatic
Worn thin but unbowed.
📍 Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
🌐 www.swankarchive.com
📧 director@swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Absences Noted.


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When No One Reads, I File Police Reports.

 🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 14 December 2024

I’M NOT EMAILING FOR FUN. I’M EMAILING BECAUSE YOU WON’T LISTEN.

Filed From: Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
Author: Polly Chromatic

Filed Under: Disability Adjustments, Ignored Emails, Legal Non-Advice, Emotional Labour, Chronic Miscommunication, Speaking Limitations, Self-Representation

To: Kirsty Hornal
CC: Sarah Newman, Laura Savage, Simon O'Meara, Dr Philip Reid
BCC: Nannette Nicholson and the Archive of Being Ignored While Disabled

📣 THE REQUEST THEY KEEP MISUNDERSTANDING:

“I just want to find a way to communicate more efficiently with you.”
“I can’t talk for more than a few minutes at a time.”
“Long explanations must be written.”
“I’m emailing to give you information—not to overwhelm you.”

You don’t have to respond to each email.
You just have to read them.

🧠 WHAT THEY DON’T UNDERSTAND:

  • I am not okay.

  • Speaking causes illness.

  • I prioritise my children’s needs over yours.

  • I’m not “being difficult.” I’m being strategic in order to survive.

I’m not asking you to like me.
I’m asking you to process information in a non-abusive way.

🗃️ RE: WHY I FILE POLICE REPORTS:

“I started making police reports for everyone because my lawyers weren’t advising me.”
“They won’t read my emails.”
“I made my own decision until the police gave me better advice.”

When professionals refuse to communicate with disabled people,
they push us into crisis.
When lawyers stop responding,
we become our own advocates.
And when systems gaslight silence,
we document everything—including them.

📎 LET THIS BE UNDERSTOOD:

I’m not “oversharing.”
I’m surviving the absence of care.
If you cannot comprehend written communication,
you are not qualified to assess my parenting, my wellness, or my decisions.

Polly Chromatic
Transmitting information. Withdrawing consent.
📍 Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
🌐 www.swankarchive.com

Labels: snobby, communication breakdown, ignored emails, lawyer refusal, legal negligence, speaking limitation, Kirsty Hornal, Sarah Newman, Simon O'Meara, police reports, disability adjustment failure, chronic advocacy, Polly documents, mother as witness

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Stop Emailing Me If You’re Going to Ignore Me for a Year.

 🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 9 January 2025

YOU DIDN’T SHOW UP. AND STILL, I’M CALLED NON-COMPLIANT.

Filed From: Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
Author: Polly Chromatic

Filed Under: No-Show Social Work, Bureaucratic Double Standards, Birthday Surveillance, Ignored Emails, Disabled Boundaries, Email Theatre, Institutional Disinterest

📨 Sent To:
Laura Savage, Kirsty Hornal, Dr Philip Reid, Simon O’Meara, and any other inbox watching silently for a misstep—

Let the record reflect:
The social worker didn’t show up.
I was home. Ill. Documented. Available.
And once again, I was harassed for not responding—
by the very people who ignored me for an entire year.

🕯️ WHAT I SAID:

“Social worker didn’t show up today.”
“I’m tired of being bothered while I’m sick.”
“I’m not responding to emails since no one responded to mine for a full year.”
“We won’t be home on my birthday.”

🧾 THE TRANSLATION FOR THE RECORD:

  • Disregarding my emails for a year = normal

  • Not answering yours while I’m sick = non-engagement

  • Social worker failure to attend = forgotten

  • Mother asserting boundaries = non-cooperative

You’re not monitoring risk. You’re manufacturing it.

🎂 BIRTHDAY NOTICE:

We won’t be home.
Because being surveilled on your birthday is not a rite of passage.
It’s state harassment wrapped in scheduled visitation.

🔁 SYSTEMIC PATTERN:

They ignore.
Then accuse.
Then reframe your boundary as instability.
Then pretend not to understand.

Polly Chromatic
Documented. Misunderstood on purpose.
📍 Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
🌐 www.swankarchive.com

Labels: Kirsty Hornal, Laura Savage, no-show social work, ignored mother, birthday boundary, email retaliation, surveillance refusal, institutional non-response, snobby, medical fatigue, chronic disregard, mislabelled non-compliance, sovereignty asserted, Flat 22

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