Standards & Whinges Against Negligent Kingdoms (SWANK London Ltd.): Honor’s mistreatment

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Apparently, Refusing to Argue Is a Problem When You’re a Disabled Mother With Facts.

🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 21 November 2024
THE DOCTOR SAID MY OXYGEN METER IS “TRASH.” THEN SHE TRIED TO ARGUE.

Filed From: Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
Author: Polly Chromatic
Filed Under: Medical Bullying · Verbal Harassment · NHS Abuse · Paediatric Disbelief · Oxygen Meter Gaslighting · SWANK Respiratory Hostility Records

To:

Simon O’Meara, Laura Savage
Cc: Kirsty Hornal, Sarah Newman, Fiona Dias-Saxena, Gideon Mpalanyi
Bcc: Nannette Nicholson, Harley Street Mental Health

🥀 SHE DIDN’T WANT EVIDENCE. SHE WANTED DOMINANCE.

“She said my oxygen meter is trash. That Honor is fine. That she doesn’t believe me.”
“She insulted my nebuliser. Repeated that she didn’t believe anything I said.”

You call this a clinical environment?
It was a bullying chamber in scrubs.

🗣 I HAD TO SPEAK LOUDLY—NOT IN DEFIANCE, BUT IN DEFENCE.

“She wouldn’t shut up and listen. She kept repeating herself like she wanted me to get angry.”

Loudness is not hostility when used to escape gaslighting.
It’s the volume of self-preservation.

⏳ THE WAIT WAS WEAPONISED.

“She kept saying it’s gonna be hours. She kept repeating it like a punishment.”

Delay was not neutral.
It was strategic.
She didn’t treat my daughter—she provoked the mother.

🔴 FROM THIS POINT FORWARD: RECORDED. ARCHIVED. SHARED.

“I told her I don’t want to talk anymore. Just treat my daughter.”

If I must bring a USB stick to A&E to get care, so be it.
What I won’t bring is silence.

📎 ACCESS STATEMENT, RE-PUBLISHED FOR THE INCOMPETENT:

“I suffer from a disability which makes speaking verbally difficult. I prefer to communicate telepathically to minimise respiratory strain; however, email is fine.”

Not your curiosity. Not your debate.
This is a clinical adjustment.

Polly Chromatic
Defending oxygen with evidence. Recording disbelief with elegance.
📍 Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
🌐 www.swankarchive.com
📧 director@swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Disrespect Archived.

Apparently, That’s Offensive.

🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 23 November 2024
WE DON’T ARGUE. WE BREATHE.

Filed From: Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
Author: Polly Chromatic
Filed Under: Verbal Hostility · Hospital Gaslighting · Disability Disrespect · Child Medical Neglect · A&E Verbalism · Respiratory Mismanagement · SWANK Defence of Breath

To:

Kirsty Hornal
Cc: Fiona Dias-Saxena, Sarah Newman, Laura Savage, Simon O’Meara, Gideon Mpalanyi
Bcc: Nannette Nicholson, Harley Street Mental Health

📣 WHAT I SAID (NOT THAT THEY LISTENED):

“I don’t appreciate the way they treat us when we go to the hospital unable to breathe—when we can’t defend ourselves verbally.”
“All they want to do is argue.”
“We don’t have time or respiratory capacity to do that.”

The last thing a mother should need in the A&E is rhetorical stamina.
Yet this system insists on performance—over pulse, posture, or protocol.

👶🏽 ON BEHALF OF MY DAUGHTER:

“It’s very straightforward. All they needed to do was check Honor.”
“But they wanted to argue about it instead.”

This isn’t a failure to understand.
It’s a refusal to accommodate—deliberate, rehearsed, and increasingly cruel.

🌀 SYSTEMIC ABUSE, THEN BLAME:

“After they abuse us, everyone blames me.”
“And when my kids get older, they will be treated the same way unless it changes now.”

You’ve confused safeguarding with antagonism.
And weaponised authority against the breathless.

🧠 VERBAL EFFORT IS A PRIVILEGE, NOT YOUR ENTITLEMENT:

“It’s exhausting for us to do simple things like talk.”
“Apparently other people can talk more easily because they waste it on arguing.”
“We only talk when it’s meaningful.”

We do not owe you discourse.
We owe our lungs oxygen, not defence.

📎 ACCESS STATEMENT (ETERNALLY NEEDED):