“Though the Witch knew the Deep Magic, there is a magic deeper still which she did not know. Her knowledge goes back only to the dawn of time. But if she could have looked a little further back… she would have known that when a willing victim who had committed no treachery was killed in a traitor’s stead, the Table would crack and Death itself would start working backward.” - Aslan, C.S. Lewis, The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe
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They Documented Their Own Retaliation — And Emailed It to Me With a Smile



⟡ “They Said It Was ‘Support.’ I Called It a Medically Dangerous Trespass.” ⟡
An evidentiary email from Westminster Social Worker Rachel Pullen, documenting how lawful boundaries were ignored, medical harm was escalated, and staff rotation became a weapon — not a service.

Filed: 24 September 2024
Reference: SWANK/WCC/VISIT-01
๐Ÿ“Ž Download PDF – 2024-09-24_SWANK_Email_Westminster_RachelPullen_DisabilityRefusal_VisitRetaliation.pdf
Email from Rachel Pullen confirming Westminster’s refusal to honour lawful disability adjustments, continuation of unannounced visits, and reintroduction of known harmful staff despite medical risk and active complaint filings.


I. What Happened

In September 2024, while under active medical risk from asthma, dysphonia, and legal trauma, Polly Chromatic received repeated pressure and boundary-violating visits from Westminster Children’s Services.

This email, from Rachel Pullen, does the following:

  • Acknowledges the parent’s request for written-only contact

  • Ignores that request by announcing upcoming visits anyway

  • Names new social workers (e.g. Edward) and reintroduces Kirsty Hornal, despite prior complaints

  • Disregards disability as a reason for protection — instead, treating it as a delay tactic

  • Treats “support” as synonymous with accesspresence, and verbal compliance

The harm was not incidental. It was structured — and documented.


II. What the Email Establishes

  • That written-only communication was acknowledged but not respected

  • That staff changes were made unilaterally, ignoring trauma-informed care

  • That active safeguarding complaints did not pause intrusion — they provoked it

  • That illness, legal protection, and parental request were reframed as opposition

  • That verbal coercion was procedurally prioritised over medical safety


III. Why SWANK Filed It

Because when a disabled person documents their needs and a state agency responds by sending in more staff, what’s happening is no longer care — it’s control. This email is not a support record. It’s a procedural confession.

SWANK archived it to:

  • Record the moment Westminster officially ignored lawful disability accommodation

  • Preserve the institutional pattern of rotating unfamiliar staff despite protest

  • Show that intrusion intensified in direct proportion to complaint and resistance


IV. Violations

  • Equality Act 2010
    • Section 20: Refusal to make reasonable adjustments
    • Section 27: Victimisation through continued contact
    • Section 149: Ignoring public duty to eliminate discrimination

  • Children Act 1989 – Disruption of emotionally safe home and educational setting

  • Human Rights Act 1998 –
    • Article 8: Family life
    • Article 3: Protection from degrading treatment

  • Social Work England Standards – Disrespect of boundaries, consent, and evidence

  • UNCRPD – Denial of accessible, voluntary, and medically safe service structure


V. SWANK’s Position

This is not safeguarding. It is state-led gaslighting with an appointment window. A social worker acknowledged disability needs — and then scheduled a verbal visit anyway. A parent rejected contact — and was sent more strangers. A child’s care was disrupted — and the council called that concern.

SWANK London Ltd. classifies this as a written record of coercive service masquerading as care — and files it accordingly.


⟡ This Dispatch Has Been Formally Archived by SWANK London Ltd. ⟡ Every entry is timestamped. Every sentence is jurisdictional. Every structure is protected. To mimic this format without licence is not homage. It is breach. We do not permit imitation. We preserve it as evidence. This is not a blog. This is a legal-aesthetic instrument. Filed with velvet contempt, preserved for future litigation. Because evidence deserves elegance. And retaliation deserves an archive. © 2025 SWANK London Ltd. All formatting and structural rights reserved. Use requires express permission or formal licence. Unlicensed mimicry will be cited — as panic, not authorship.

Verbal Warfare Is a Privilege We Don’t Possess



๐Ÿ–‹ ๐’ฎ๐’ฒ๐’œ๐’ฉ๐’ฆ Dispatch | 23 November 2024

“We Only Speak When It’s Sacred”
Filed Under: Respiratory Discrimination · Verbal Coercion · Disability Adjustment Refusal · Pediatric Neglect · SWANK London Ltd


Dear Kirsty,

“I don’t appreciate the way they treat us when we go to the hospital unable to breathe, when we can’t defend ourselves verbally.”

In the theatre of institutional care, breathlessness is viewed with suspicion—especially when paired with advocacy.

In your world, dialogue is default.
In ours, dialogue is dangerous.

“All they want to do is argue.”

You frame it as procedure.
We experience it as persecution.
Theirs is a system that equates silence with guilt, and speech with noncompliance.

“They refused to check Honor.”

A child, visibly unwell, discarded because her mother could not perform distress in their preferred dialect.

What kind of clinic demands oxygenated obedience as a precondition for care?

What kind of safeguarding officer allows it?

“Apparently other people can talk more easily because they waste it on arguing so often.”

Indeed.

But I speak only when it’s sacred.
When words are necessary. When life is at stake.
That is not silence. That is strategy.


๐Ÿ“ Composed in Controlled Breath. Filed in Refusal of Debate.

Polly Chromatic
Guardian of Honor · Silence Strategist · Director, SWANK London Ltd
✉ director@swanklondon.com | ๐ŸŒ www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Breath Accounted For. All Abuse Indexed.



The Hospital That Bullied Me for Needing Oxygen



๐Ÿ–‹ SWANK Dispatch | 24 November 2024

“You Called It ‘Erratic.’ I Call It Trying to Breathe.”
Filed Under: A&E Abuse · Disability Gaslighting · NHS Denial · Child Medical Neglect · SWANK London Ltd


Dear Kirsty,

“Yes, the hospital’s perspective is what I’ve been asking about for an entire year.”

And in that year, they’ve offered no clarity—only euphemism and blame.
The word they reached for? “Erratic.”

Let us correct the record:

What you call erratic in a disabled woman is in fact:

  • A refusal to argue with people trained to disbelieve

  • A choice not to waste oxygen on provocation

  • A quiet exit from a place that provides harm instead of help

This is not behavioural. It is respiratory.

“When a woman in the waiting area was abusing me, they blamed me for that.”

Because in the A&E caste system, the asthmatic mother who doesn’t speak is always guilty.
St Thomas. St Mary’s. Chelsea and Westminster.
Change the badge, not the behaviour.

And now?

“All the hospitals refuse to treat my kids more than they refuse to treat me.”

That’s not a fluke.
It is intergenerational cruelty administered in NHS lanyards.

“I’m going to sue them. It’s child neglect.”

Correct. And it will be framed not as anecdote, but as state-enabled malice
documented, cross-referenced, and submitted with receipts.

“I do not waste my time arguing with people.”
“I simply document it online and move on.”

That is not evasion. That is litigation choreography.

You do not get to debate this.
You get archived.


๐Ÿ“ Filed Without Breath. Posted Without Permission.
Polly Chromatic
Archival Mother · NHS Witness · Legal Storm-In-Waiting
✉ director@swanklondon.com
๐ŸŒ www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Hostilities Recorded.



The Abuse Cycle: Explained by the One Forced to Breathe Through It



๐Ÿ–‹ SWANK Dispatch | 24 November 2024
“My Lungs Are Not a Policy Debate”

Filed Under: Asthma Ignorance · Verbal Violence · Medical Misrecognition · NHS Gatekeeping · Disability Advocacy · SWANK London Ltd

Dear Kirsty,

You received the email.
You read the subject line: “The abuse cycle.”
And still — you requested a meeting. A call.
verbal medium, knowing full well that my voice is a medical casualty.

“Everyone tries to force me to explain things verbally…
and they also get angry if I try to communicate via email.”

This is not miscommunication.
This is discipline by design.
A coercive loop: pressure the disabled to perform, then punish them for failing to comply.

“When I get sick… the hospital is so ignorant about asthma that they refuse us treatment.”

You provoke the flare.
You deny the care.
You demand verbal grace from a throat clamped by protocol.

So here’s the official workaround — since you thrive on officialdom:

  • disability advocate to attend, not perform.

  • GP-issued directive stating what I’ve said a hundred times: Verbal harms me.

  • verbal ban in all clinical engagements. Not a preference — a protection.

This isn’t a request.
This is a legal wall dressed in velvet syntax.

And yes: your refusal will be archived.
Your escalation will be indexed.
Your silence will be printed.

๐Ÿ“ Exhaled Calmly by:
Polly Chromatic
Archival Asthmatic · Sovereign Communicator of Breach Logic
✉ director@swanklondon.com
๐ŸŒ www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Loops Broken.


The System That Both Makes You Sick and Refuses to Hear You Explain Why



๐Ÿ–‹ SWANK Dispatch | 24 November 2024
“The Abuse Cycle: As Diagnosed by a Disabled Mother”

Filed Under: Communication Abuse · Asthma Ignorance · Hospital Harm · Systemic Loop · Verbal Demands · SWANK London Ltd

Dear Kirsty (and Co-Conspirators in the Cycle),

Let me diagram your cruelty in three simple steps:

  1. You demand I speak — knowing full well it worsens my condition.

  2. I become ill — and the NHS refuses to treat my asthma.

  3. The refusal becomes justification for more pressure.

That is not service.
That is abuse.
And it has a name: The Loop.

“Does anyone want my perspective?”

No.
You want compliance theatre. You want performance, not communication.
And when I fail to perform, you diagnose my exhaustion as noncooperation.

So here are my legally-enforceable answers:

  • disability advocate, to protect against further clinical violence

  • GP-issued asthma directive, because the NHS forgets lungs exist

  • written-only protocol, because I refuse to be cross-examined for air

You don’t misunderstand.
You reproduce harm on schedule.

You aren’t uninformed.
You are procedurally hostile by design.

And I am no longer asking for oxygen in your dialect.
I’m filing it.

๐Ÿ“ Formally Diagnosed by:
Polly Chromatic
Clinical Witness to State-Orchestrated Oxygen Sabotage
✉ director@swanklondon.com
๐ŸŒ www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Loops Logged.


A Refund Request and a Bureaucratic IQ Test



๐Ÿ–‹ SWANK Dispatch | 10 December 2024
“There Will Be No Assessment. Only Incompetence.”

Filed Under: Disability Disregard · Medical Incompetence · Verbal Chauvinism · Refunds & Resistance · Procedural Stupidity · SWANK London Ltd

Dear Kirsty,

“There will be no assessment because no one is smart enough to provide adjustments so I can communicate.”

Precisely.

When the bar for reasonable adjustment is “allow her to write,”
and the institution still fails—

we are not in the realm of psychiatry.
We are in the kingdom of bureaucratic Dunning-Kruger.

I asked for a refund because the receptionist refused to send the doctor the documents required to complete the psychiatric report.

This, after I was told email was permitted.
This, despite a respiratory disease and legal rights.
This, after years of being punished for not speaking—even though speaking could kill me.

And now social workers want to conduct assessments
in a system that doesn't even understand email?

No.

There will be no assessment.
There will be a paper trail.

๐Ÿ“ Officially Unassessed by:
Polly Chromatic
Sovereign of Written Expression, Destroyer of Bad Admin
✉ director@swanklondon.com
๐ŸŒ www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Assessments Declined.


When The Voice Breaks, But The Story Must Still Be Told.



๐Ÿ–‹ ๐’ฎ๐’ฒ๐’œ๐’ฉ๐’ฆ Dispatch | 10 January 2025
THE UNSEEN BURDEN: MUSCLE TENSION DYSPHONIA IN THE MIDST OF HARASSMENT

๐Ÿ“ Filed From: Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
✒️ Author: Polly Chromatic
๐Ÿ—‚ Filed Under: Muscle Tension Dysphonia · Vocal Strain · Stress-Induced Voice Disorders · Speech Therapy Needs · Psychosocial Impact · SWANK Medical Dossier


To the Institutions Mistaking Silence for Consent:

Glen Peache, Sarah Newman, Eric Wedge-Bull, Kirsty Hornal, Rhiannon Hodgson, Fiona Dias-Saxena, Rachel Pullen, Milena Abdula-Gomes, Samira Issa
Cc: aaforbes@gov.tcalsmith@gov.tc, Annabelle Kapoor
Bcc: Laura Savage, Simon O’Meara, Philip Reid, Gideon Mpalanyi, Nannette Nicholson


๐Ÿ—ฃ WHEN THE BODY SAYS “NO” AND NO ONE LISTENS

Muscle Tension Dysphonia (MTD) is not theatrical.
It is not convenient.
It is a diagnosed medical condition resulting from excessive laryngeal tension, often provoked—and prolonged—by forced verbal compliance under psychosocial duress.


๐Ÿ” CLINICAL PATTERNS YOU'VE CONSISTENTLY OVERLOOKED

– Strained, hoarse, or breathy voice—misread as emotional volatility
– Physical tension in neck, shoulders, and throat—dismissed as “behavioural”
– Vocal fatigue from effortful speaking—ignored because I did not scream
– Triggers: forced phone calls, public hostility, demand for “meetings”
– Feedback loop: stress → vocal dysfunction → institutional misinterpretation → further stress


๐Ÿ›  PRESCRIBED, IGNORED, AND STILL NEEDED

– Voice therapy: relaxation, proper breath support
– Stress reduction: counselling, non-hostile environments
– Postural awareness: ergonomics for breathing ease
– Hydration and vocal hygiene: simple, overlooked, essential
– Medical treatment: for reflux and inflammation where relevant


๐ŸŽญ CONTEXT: FORCED VERBALISM AS A FORM OF ABUSE

Let us not pretend this is coincidental.
When social workers insist on verbal meetings despite medical documentation,
when state agents weaponise a mother’s vocal limitations as proof of unfitness—
they are not safeguarding. They are enacting procedural cruelty.


Polly Chromatic
Whispering truth through strained vocal cords, with dignity and court receipts.
๐Ÿ“ Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
๐ŸŒ www.swankarchive.com
๐Ÿ“ง director@swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Tensions Recorded. All Harm Archived.





Hire Your Own Lawyer. Mine Has Been Retained.

 ๐Ÿ–‹ SWANK Dispatch | 9 February 2024

I SAID I’M SICK. I SAID STOP. I’M NOT GOING TO SAY IT AGAIN.


๐Ÿ“Ž SUBJECT: Yet Another Email About the Exact Same Thing

Refusal Count: 7
Boundaries Ignored: All
Respect for Breathing Difficulties: 0


๐Ÿ—ฃ️ Noelle’s Final Words of the Day:

“I’m sick.
I can’t breathe well.
I will not speak out loud.
Not sure what you can’t understand.”

“So do not ask me to speak when I can’t breathe.”
“Leave us alone.”
“I’m hiring a lawyer. Hire your own lawyer.”


๐Ÿง  TRANSLATION FOR THE SYSTEMICALLY ILLITERATE:

  • “I’m sick” = Medical limitation

  • “I can’t breathe well” = Documented disability

  • “I will not speak” = Legal boundary

  • “Hire your own lawyer” = This is now a legal matter

And yet —
Samira still writes:

“Would you be able to meet with me in person?”
“A verbal conversation will be beneficial…”

What part of asthmatic silence are you struggling to comprehend?


๐Ÿงพ WHAT THIS IS:

It’s not safeguarding.
It’s not new information.
It’s not duty of care.
It’s sustained, deliberate harassment under the guise of public interest.


๐Ÿงฌ THE MEDICAL FACTS:

  • Asthma (severe)

  • Panic disorder

  • Muscle tension dysphonia

  • Psychiatric report confirming verbal limits

  • Refusal of verbal contact since 2023


๐Ÿงฏ THE RESPONSE FILED:

  • Refusal to participate in further discussion

  • Solicitor instructed

  • Medical negligence claim in motion

  • Safeguarding harassment formally documented


Noelle Meline
Not an incident. Not a risk. Not your entertainment.
๐Ÿ“ฉ complaints@swankarchive.com


Labels: snobby, serious, medically silenced, RBKC misconduct, safeguarding obsession, written-only enforcement, repeated refusal, Samira Issa, Eric Wedge-Bull, Chelsea & Westminster retaliation, disabled mother under siege, legal escalation imminent

You Don’t Need a Conversation. You Need a Court Date.

 ๐Ÿ–‹ SWANK Dispatch | 9 February 2024

I Am Spending Time With My Children. You Are Spending Time Repeating Yourself.

Filed Under: Referral Looping, Asthma Disregard, NHS Collusion, Social Work Harassment, Verbal Coercion, Written Refusal Ignored (Again)


๐Ÿ“Ž SUBJECT: Referral (Still) About the 2 January 2024 Incident

From: Samira Issa
Also CC’d: Eric Wedge-Bull (Apparently Still Reading From the Same Script)
To: A mother who already replied. Firmly. Several times.


“Would you be able to meet with me in person?”
“A verbal conversation will be beneficial…”

You wrote this while claiming to have read all the emails.

So let’s highlight the most elegant reply yet:

“I am spending time with my kids. I do not want to waste my time with you. Call a lawyer.”


๐Ÿงพ You were told:

  • The incident was already handled.

  • There is no new information.

  • The matter has been escalated to the court.

  • Medical documentation prohibits verbal contact.

  • Harassment litigation is in progress.

Yet you persist — not because of care, but because of habit.


๐Ÿง  THIS IS NOT A REFERRAL.

THIS IS A LOOP.

A loop of avoidance — designed to distract a disabled mother from her legal case, her medical care, and her actual children.

You are not checking safety.
You are checking control.


๐Ÿซ And again, because it seems printed words don’t register:

I cannot speak on the phone.
I will not attend in person.
I have legal representation.
All communication must be written.
The matter has already been addressed.


๐ŸŽญ This Is Not Safeguarding.

This Is Bureaucratic Theatre.

And unfortunately for your department, you’re performing in front of a legal audience now.


Noelle Meline
Breathing, Litigating, Unbothered.
๐Ÿ“ฉ complaints@swankarchive.com


Labels: snobby, SWANK tribunal, safeguarding harassment, legal escalation, verbal coercion refusal, RBKC misconduct, Samira Issa, Eric Wedge-Bull, NHS referral theatre, repeat loop abuse, written-only mandate, sovereign mother under siege

If You Don’t Respect Written Communication, You Are Not Safeguarding. You’re Stalking.

 ๐Ÿ–‹ SWANK Dispatch | 9 February 2024

YOU’RE NOT “CHECKING IN”—YOU’RE LOOPING.
Also Titled: 

Filed Under: Repeat Referrals, Verbal Coercion, Disregard for Disability, RBKC Redundancy, Court-Evading Safeguarding, NHS Collusion


๐Ÿ“Ž SUBJECT: Referral from Chelsea & Westminster Hospital

Received by: Samira Issa & Eric Wedge-Bull
Rejected by: Common sense, basic chronology, and every previous reply


“I hope this email is received well.”
— Samira Issa, sending her fourth request for phone or in-person discussion on the same incident already addressed.

You hope it’s received well?

It won’t be.

It’s being received like this:
STOP.


๐Ÿงพ Recap of Reality:

  • The “incident” occurred on 2 January 2024.

  • Referral already answered.

  • No new event. No new risk.

  • Court has been informed.

  • Mother has legal representation.

And still — here you are, again.


⚖️ The Legal Posture:

This is harassment.
This is institutional stalking.
This is retaliation for formal medical complaints.

Your department is not seeking clarity — you’re seeking control.


๐Ÿ“ž What Samira asked:

“Would you be able to meet with me in person?”
“A verbal conversation would be beneficial…”

๐Ÿซ What the mother replied:

“I cannot breathe.”
“I have repeatedly stated that I cannot talk on the phone.”
“Nothing new has happened.”
“You need to contact the court.”
“Do not contact me again.”

And yet — you came back anyway.


✍️ Let Us Be Clear:

WE DO NOT DO “VERBAL CLARITY.”

We do recorded, time-stamped, documented refusal.

If you need information: Read the file.
If you need direction: Speak to the court.
If you need confirmation: Check the date.


❌ There is no unmet need.

❌ There is no safeguarding risk.

❌ There is no consent to verbal engagement.

But there is plenty of written evidence that you keep ignoring boundaries — even while claiming to “safeguard” them.


Noelle Meline
Already referred. Already replied. Already done.
๐Ÿ“ฉ complaints@swankarchive.com


Labels: snobby, formal refusal, safeguarding harassment, verbal coercion, written-only mandate, social work stalking, NHS referral loop, Chelsea & Westminster collusion, RBKC incompetence, court avoidance tactics, asthmatic sovereignty

A Referral Was Made. It Was Addressed. So They Made It Again.



⟡ SWANK Archive: The Referral That Looped into Madness ⟡

8–18 February 2024

The Pattern Is the System, Not the Mother.


I. Opening Salvo: A Referral Based on Nothing New

Chelsea & Westminster Hospital made a redundant referral concerning the 2 January 2024 incident at St Thomas’ Hospital—an event already disclosed and documented.

On 8 February 2024RBKC social worker Samira Issa emailed Polly Chromatic requesting a phone call.

“I was hoping we could discuss this over the phone.”

Polly’s response was swift, documented, and legally grounded:

“Please refrain from contacting me again... I cannot communicate via phone... I am disgusted with your continued harassment.”

She confirmed:

  • Legal representation had been retained

  • A formal harassment complaint had already been filed


II. The Cycle Repeats—While They Claim It Doesn’t

9 February 2024
Samira responds:

“I have read [your previous emails] all.”
“Would you be able to meet with me in person?”

She claims the referral concerns a “separate incident”, yet provides no new information.

The tactics remain unchanged:

  • Verbal coercion disguised as support

  • Asthma-based communication boundaries ignored

  • Pretending written refusals are unclear

Polly replies again:

“Nothing new has happened and I do not have time.”
“Call a lawyer.”


III. The Surveillance Visit, and the Escalation by Samira

By 13 February, Samira admits to an unauthorised visit:

“We visited your last known address to see if you and the children were residing there.”

A refusal to speak becomes grounds for home surveillance.
No legal threshold. No due cause. No warning.

Then she asks:

“Can you confirm where you are currently living?”

Despite already knowing.
Despite having just been there.
Despite violating trust and triggering retraumatisation.


IV. The Legal Yet Exhausting Closure

18 February 2024
Polly responds:

“We will be available at 4pm Wednesday 21st February.”

This is not consent.
It is closure by exhaustion.
The location was provided. The file was closed—again.

This was never a safeguarding concern.
This was a reputation-maintenance ritual.




© SWANK London Ltd. All Patterns Reserved.
When a system can’t hear “no” in writing, it’s not protecting—it’s performing.

Polly Chromatic
Director, SWANK London Ltd.
Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
www.swanklondon.com
✉ director@swanklondon.com
⚠ Written Communication Only – View Policy



Referral Resent. Refusal Reiterated.



⟡ SWANK Exhaustion Transcript: The Email Loop Samira Couldn’t Exit ⟡

9–18 February 2024

The Only “Concerning Pattern” Was the Inbox Behaviour of RBKC


I. Introduction: A Referral for a Referral Already Referred

RBKC Social Worker Samira Issa initiated repeated contact regarding a hospital referral from Chelsea and Westminster—based on an incident at St. Thomas’ Hospital on 2 January 2024.

This incident had already been acknowledged.
Already discussed.
Already dismissed.

Polly Chromatic’s responses—initially courteous, later exhausted—formed a pattern of lawful refusal. The only pattern missed was the one in Samira’s inbox.


II. Highlights from the SWANK Transcript

9 February 2024 | 6:51 AM

“They are referring me for the same incident that I’ve already spoken with you about... I am concerned about your mental health... I have asthma and cannot communicate via phone.”

9 February 2024 | 2:59 PM

“Nothing new has happened and I do not have time.”

9 February 2024 | 3:04 PM

“I am spending time with my kids. I do not want to waste my time with you. Call a lawyer.”

13 February 2024 | Samira responds

Claims it’s a “separate incident.” Suggests another verbal meeting—again.

18 February 2024 | Polly responds

“We will be available at 4pm Wednesday 21st February.”
A brief opening—extended despite institutional exhaustion.


III. Email Behaviour as Procedural Misconduct

Across this correspondence:

  • Samira claims to have read previous emails

  • Then requests the same thing again

  • Refers the same incident as if it were new

  • Ignores explicit references to asthma-related verbal restrictions

  • Ignores repeated use of the word harassment

Meanwhile, Polly had:

✔️ Provided documentation
✔️ Asserted her legal representation
✔️ Declined verbal contact on medical grounds
✔️ Replied in writing—more than once

This is not miscommunication.
It’s a refusal to accept written autonomy.


IV. When “We Need to Speak” Becomes Systemic Gaslighting

This was not safeguarding.
It was performative dominance through forced conversation.
It was a refusal to read in order to retain power.

Polly said:

“Please refrain from contacting me again.”

RBKC replied:

“Would you be willing to meet me in person?”

That isn’t misreading.
It’s administrative gaslighting by design.




© SWANK London Ltd. All Patterns Reserved.
This isn’t safeguarding—it’s inbox intrusion as institutional ritual.

Polly Chromatic
Director, SWANK London Ltd.
Flat 22, 2 Periwinkle Gardens, London W2
www.swanklondon.com
✉ director@swanklondon.com
⚠ Written Communication Only – View Policy



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