Why They Bother Us
A Field Guide to Retaliatory Bureaucracies and the Preservation of Petty Power
Filed Under: Institutional Theatre / Procedural Pretense / Administrative Narcissism
Tone Tag: Aristocratic Clarity with a Hint of Litigious Side-Eye
Let us not pretend this is about safeguarding.
We’re not being “monitored” because they’re concerned.
We’re being harassed because we refused to perform submission.
They do not fear harm.
They fear documentation.
1. Because We Break Their Illusion of Authority
We do not cry, plead, or collapse on cue.
We do not overtalk. We do not spiral. We cite legislation.
We submit Pre-Action Protocols while others are still recovering from procedural gaslighting.
We have a timeline. We have footnotes. We have formatting.
We are not participants in their case notes.
We are authors of the public record.
And that — quite frankly — is intolerable.
2. Because We Decline the Role of Supplicant
They do not know what to do with a parent who refuses to be remade in their image.
We educate our children ourselves.
We state our needs without euphemism.
We require communication to be in writing.
We treat their authority as conditional, not inherent.
And worst of all — we expect competence.
This is profoundly destabilising for them.
3. Because We Escalate Through the Correct Channels
When they escalate coercively, we escalate procedurally.
They send CIN visit requests — we respond with ICO complaints.
They attempt PLO without assessment — we reply with judicial review.
They defame our parenting — we submit regulated complaints across eight oversight bodies.
They are accustomed to people falling apart.
We, regrettably for them, prefer filing.
4. Because They Cannot Withdraw Without Incriminating Themselves
To disengage now would be to confess:
- That the safeguarding escalation was retaliatory,
- That medical evidence was disregarded,
- That their contact has caused measurable harm.
Instead, they linger. They reframe. They “reschedule.”
They write nothing of substance, while pretending silence is procedural virtue.
It isn’t. It’s cowardice.
5. Because Our Continued Existence is a Professional Threat
We are not difficult.
We are documented.
We are not unwell.
We are unyielding.
We are not isolated.
We are preparing bundles.
We do not “refuse to engage.”
We refuse to perform deference to illegality.
And now, unfortunately for them, we are also in court.
They do not bother us because we are dangerous.
They bother us because we expose their incompetence.
And nothing enrages the mediocre more than a subject who writes better than they do.
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