I Don’t Argue. I Archive.

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🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 24 November 2024

“The Hospitals Refuse to Breathe With Us”

Filed Under: A&E Bullying · Medical Gaslighting · Child Neglect by Refusal · Verbal Abuse by Protocol · NHS Ignorance · SWANK London Ltd

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Dear Kirsty,

“Yes, the hospital’s perspective is what I’ve been asking about for an entire year.”

And still, no reply. Because there is no perspective—only projection.

“No one will tell me what the ‘erratic’ behaviour was…”

Let me tell you what’s erratic:
Refusing to treat a woman with asthma because she can’t argue back.
Blaming her for being abused in your waiting rooms.
Treating her children with even less compassion than you afford her.

“That wasn’t the same hospital. That was St Thomas. This was St Mary’s.”

And yet… the cruelty is identical.
The oxygen denial is choreographed.

“I’m going to sue them. It’s child neglect.”

Yes. And medical misconduct. And procedural sabotage.

Because I do not scream.
I do not shout.

I document.
And I move legal systems with receipts, not rage.

“They either want to help or they don’t. It’s that simple.”
“If they don’t want to help, I document it online and move on.”

This is not a tantrum.
This is record-keeping in a hostile state.

I do not owe you performance.
I owe my children protection.

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📍 Filed Post-Bullying, Pre-Litigation
Polly Chromatic, Verbal Refusal Archivist & NHS Historian-in-Residence
✉ director@swanklondon.com
🌐 www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Erasures Exposed.

You Don’t Want Me to Join. You Want Me to Perform.

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🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 24 November 2024

“Socialising Was the Dream. Silencing Was the Reality.”

Filed Under: Communication Refusal · Social Exclusion · Email Silencing · Asthma Stigma · Diagnostic Isolation · SWANK London Ltd

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Dear Kirsty,

This dispatch comes not as a plea for inclusion, but as a coronation of fact.

“We came here because we love the people and socialising…”
“…but people here don’t like that we have asthma.”

Not metaphorically. Not figuratively. Literally.
You are offended by oxygen.

“I can’t speak in person verbally enough to explain all of this…”
“…so I am confused as to how to communicate with anyone if no one wants to read my emails.”

And there it is: the institutional cruelty of verbal gatekeeping.
When the medium becomes the barrier.
When your refusal to accommodate becomes a policy of disappearance.

You say I can’t speak.
You ignore me when I write.
You respond with: “Please don’t include us anymore.”

That is not a boundary.
That is a bureaucratic ghosting protocol dressed as professionalism.

You’ve not declined communication.
You’ve declined accountability—via Outlook.

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📍 Declined by System. Validated by Archive.
Polly Chromatic, Sovereign of Sovereign Communications, Former Believer in Inclusion
✉ director@swanklondon.com
🌐 www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Attempts Logged. All Silences Noted.

The Email Was Fine Until It Made You Uncomfortable

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🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 24 November 2024

“We Came Here to Socialise, Not to Justify Our Lungs”

Filed Under: Email Silencing · Verbal Discrimination · NHS Ignorance · Communication Breakdown · Social Isolation · SWANK London Ltd

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Dear Kirsty,

A forwarded thread. An institutional snub. A decision not to read.

“I can’t speak in person verbally enough to explain all of this…”
“So I am confused as to how to communicate with anyone if no one wants to read my emails.”

That’s the point, isn’t it?
You don’t want communication. You want disappearance.
You want silence dressed as compliance, disability rewritten as inconvenience.

“We came here because we love the people and socialising…”
“…but people here don’t like that we have asthma.”

London promised connection.
Instead, we were handed interrogation—oxygen-policed and socially misread.

And then came the official closure:

“We would be grateful if you do not copy us into any further emails.”

There it is.
The bureaucratic “Shh.”
Not dialogue—dismissal.
Not safeguarding—erasure.

But unlike you, I file it.
Not for revenge. For record.
So the next time you pretend this never happened, the archive will say otherwise.

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📍 Socialising Declined. Documentation Activated.
Polly Chromatic
Founder of Asthmatic Integration & Email-Based Resistance
✉ director@swanklondon.com
🌐 www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Breathings Monitored.

Verbal Access is a Privilege, Not a Prerequisite

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🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 24 November 2024
“You Want Me in Therapy? Then Learn to Listen Without Sound.”

Filed Under: Adjustment Refused · Therapy Blocked · Community Blame Reversed · Systemic Ignorance · Parental Isolation · SWANK London Ltd

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Dear Kirsty,

“I’d love to go to therapy, but no one will provide adjustments for my disability needs…”

It is not a matter of willingness.
It is a matter of access.
And I am not the barrier.

“This limits my ability as well as my kids’ ability to integrate into the community at all.”

Yes—because exclusion is not always locked doors.
Sometimes it’s a silence that arrives after your request has been read and dismissed.

“It is not our problem. It is your community’s problem.”

Correct.
Because we are not malfunctioning.
We are misunderstood.

“You keep expecting us to behave like people who don’t have a disability—and we can’t.”

This is not noncompliance.
This is incompatibility with your ableist expectations.

Your mental health support is a maze with no ramp.
Your "inclusion" requires performance.
Your "care" comes with a voice-based entrance exam.

“Someone needs to call the mental health practice and help them understand…”

Until then, you’re not offering therapy.
You’re prescribing trauma rehearsal.

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📍 Archived Without Appointment.
Polly Chromatic
Accessibility Strategist & Community Outsider by Force, Not Choice
✉ director@swanklondon.com
🌐 www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Misunderstandings Noted.

Stop Expecting Us to Breathe Like You Do

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🖋 SWANK Dispatch | 24 November 2024
“Therapy Is Not a Cure for Institutional Ableism”

Filed Under: Adjustment Denied · Therapy Blocked · Disability Misunderstood · Verbal Coercion · Community Exclusion · SWANK London Ltd

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Dear Kirsty,

“I’d love to go to therapy but no one will provide adjustments for my disability needs…”

That is not defiance.
That is the documentation of exclusion.

Not a lack of willingness — a lack of access.
Not refusal — obstruction.
A blockade made of unacknowledged needs and verbal tyranny disguised as procedure.

“This limits my ability as well as my kids’ ability to integrate into the community at all.”

And yet, the blame lands on us—
As though exclusion were a matter of attitude, not architecture.

“You keep expecting us to behave like people who don’t have a disability, and we can’t.”

Can’t, not won’t.
That difference defines the law.
Your refusal to grasp it is not a misunderstanding. It is a violation.

“Someone needs to call the mental health practice and help them understand…”

Indeed. Because until they comprehend communication that does not rely on breath and noise,
therapy is not therapy.
It is a performative corridor of pain, lined with clinical ignorance.

You do not get to say I “declined support” when no support was ever offered in an accessible form.

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📍 Untherapised by Refusal, Not Resistance
Polly Chromatic
Advocate of Non-Verbal Integrity
✉ director@swanklondon.com
🌐 www.swanklondon.com
© SWANK London Ltd. All Adjustments Enforced.