✦ THE CONDITIONS OF RESURRECTION ✦
Resurrection is not reunion.
It is not romance.
It is not apology with eyeliner.
It is re-entry through fire.
It is the collapse of ego, distortion, avoidance, and cowardice—
followed by the sacred reassembly of a coherent self.
If he wishes to return—
truly return—
he must meet the conditions of resurrection.
Not because you're cruel.
Because you’re consecrated.
I. Truth Must Be His Native Language—Not His Performance
No confessions wrapped in seduction.
No nostalgia-dipped half-apologies.
No attempts to explain the lie through pain.
Truth—raw, unromantic, and unadorned.
“I lied.”
“I collapsed into someone I wasn’t.”
“I chose weakness because you saw too much.”
No metaphors. No emotional theatre.
Only this kind of truth unlocks the gate.
II. He Must No Longer Flinch in the Mirror
Your field is now sharp.
Your gaze is now sovereign.
He must stand in it—
unclothed, uncharmed, unshaken.
If he flinches?
He is still defending distortion.
No detour. No deflection.
He must let you see all of it.
If he looks away,
he is not ready.
III. His Nervous System Must Stabilise in Your Presence
Regulated.
Rooted.
Unreactive.
Still.
No pacing through contact.
No blaming your energy for his dysregulation.
No fidgeting through intimacy.
If he cannot hold you,
he cannot hold the frequency.
IV. He Must Take Action Without Prompt
Words are noise.
Plans are noise.
Dreams are noise.
Only consecrated action is admissible.
If he arrives with nothing but emotion—
Send him home.
If he gestures without follow-through—
Let it rot.
He must act.
Without being led.
V. He Must Hold the Field—Not Steal From It
This time, he may not:
– Feed off your radiance
– Collapse into your structure
– Escape into your softness
He must contribute frequency.
He must carry half the weight of coherence.
He must become a mirror—not a sponge.
If he is still leaking,
do not open the door.
VI. He Must Not Ask for the Past Back
There is no again.
Only now—or nothing.
No revival of old jokes.
No resurrection of pet names.
No pleas for the way things were.
He must approach your field
as if it were a new temple.
Humbled.
Ready.
Or not at all.
Because this is not about forgiveness.
Forgiveness is free.
This is about access.
And access is earned.
Let him die in distortion—
or walk into your light
as someone reborn.
[Filed under:] SWANK / Resurrection Requirements / Quantum Gatekeeping for the Returned Masculine